Category Archives: Old Family Stuff

Tableau — 1/19/75

It’s a surreal moment, stilled now in memory. How she left, and how we lived. In the wee hours of that dark January, my mother woke up in distress and called out for help. This was not a new or … Continue reading

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The Annual Dashing of Hope…Continued

I didn’t think that hope was something I indulged in, growing up. I saw clearly (I thought), knew what to expect, and was buttressed against vain desires. And I definitely wasn’t buoyant, cheerful, or optimistic. By the time I was … Continue reading

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Class and Privilege

I’ve recently had conversations with a couple of friends that left me wanting to think more about the concept of ‘class’ and especially that of ‘having class.’As with many things, I received a healthy dose of indoctrination from my mother … Continue reading

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Aunt Emma — Part 3

I’ve been putting this off, but if I just start writing, the words will take me wherever I need to go. This is the alchemy of writing for me, and it always works when I give it a chance. So … Continue reading

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Aunt Emma — Part 2

After my weekend at Great Aunt Emma and Helen’s, I was shyly enamored of them (emphasis on the ‘shyly’). How that worked for me as a kid was pretty self-defeating. Basically, I tended to avoid people that I was drawn … Continue reading

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Aunt Emma — Part 1

In the long years of adulthood I’ve thought of Aunt Emma — Great Aunt Emma to be exact — as one of my saving graces. As a young child I was a little afraid of both Aunt Emma and Aunt … Continue reading

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My Father’s Voice

Early this morning, while it was still dark outside, I was awakened by my father’s voice calling my name. Coming suddenly full awake I was disoriented. What had just happened? What had I just heard? It was definitely his voice … Continue reading

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Memories

Visiting with my sister last night we got to talking about some childhood books. These are ones that were read to us – as well as a set of books that we got to see once a year when we … Continue reading

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