Out on The Town

This weekend I’ve gotta catch up my movie reviews in the sidebar … wouldn’t want to deprive the Oscar voters of my opinions!  😉

Last night I caught “The Town” at Red River Theatres in Concord and, while I enjoyed the movie, I am always puzzled when directors find it necessary to show fights with enough gunfire to (at least as I read it) mow down an entire small city … only to have no one, or very few, actually get hit by a bullet.  It seems an irresponsible depiction of gunfights, if you ask me … and marred a movie that I otherwise liked quite well.

Makes me curious to see … or try to piece together … a series of movie clips showing the evolution of the gunfight over time. It could be called something like “From the OK Corral to Armageddon” – maybe there’s a dissertation out there somewhere that I can link to.

In other random news, I read that MB is “on the fence” about running for President in 2012.  That someone of this caliber is even considering a run for the Presidency is so amazing to me … and I have to think it must give the mainstream GOP nightmares.  Although I suppose that if both MB and SP entered the fray, they might pretty much cancel one another out.

Since the Superbowl, I’ve been hearing all sorts of commentary about how disappointed and horrified people are that Christine Aguilera messed up the words to The Star Spangled Banner.  Where were these people when Dubya couldn’t put together an entire sentence for 8 fu*king years?  Get real, okay?

Phinally … Phillies, anyone?  Get ready for R2C2 and an awesome season! Give a listen to GM Ruben Amaro, Jr. …

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The Game and The Interview

Packers won the game … and it seems that Obama won the interview.

Of course I am biased, but I think Barack held his ground and made his points.

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A First

Well, I think this is a first, anyway.  I received some insulting spam here on the blog this morning.  Usually it’s so meaninglessly ingratiating that I actually found the insulting tone of this spam kind of refreshing.

The comment said something about how what was written here was trivial and without merit … and in a departure from the usual spammy profile, there weren’t millions of links for Viagra and/or Cialis attached.

Just the acerbic comment.

Hmmm, now, come to think of it, perhaps that wasn’t spam.

It was signed by someone named Alice … who looked a little like this … 😦

Alice, were you kvetching in anticipation of my writing about the Superbowl?

Actually, aside from some grumbling about Big Ben over on tumblr, I am playing it close to the vest this year.

However, before I watch the x’s and o’s on the gridiron tonight, I do think I will be watching the B’s and O’s go at it … and praying that Obama makes O’Reilly look like the blowhard that he is.

It’ll be interesting to see how BillO plays it.  It is an interview fraught with, perhaps, more challenges for Bill than Barack.  As Bill says, “I fully expect to get hammered after the interview is over,” he wrote in his column this week. “Depending on how you feel about the president, the questions will either be too soft or too intrusive.”

So my money’s on Barack and the Packers, rather than Ben and Bill.

Alice, what do you think?

PS  Just joking about the spam … it was signed by someone named GrouchySurfer, not Alice … 😉

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This Snowy Friday Morning

Dig, dig, dig, dig … but it sure is beautiful!

2-4-11

Click the photo to see more, if you dare.

There are no photos of Ruby this morning … she needed a bath … and got one … so was indoors for this artistic enterprise …

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Victims

I often deal with people in my work life who have been significantly victimized at some point in their lives. They may have been abused as children, or they may have been in abusive relationships as adults, or both.

One of the things that I’ve come to notice is how many people carry that victimization with them every place they go. In doing that they become perpetrators, both against themselves and, in a different way, against those around them.

Believe me, I know whereof I speak. I spent a lot of years dragging around a battered old suitcase packed to the gills with my various victimizations (and it wasn’t even the kind of suitcase that has wheels).

In thinking about this, I think about someone like Nelson Mandela as a bright contrast. He was so mightily victimized in his lifetime, and he survived and transcended it.  That he is a survivor does not mitigate the hideousness of his victimization – in fact in many ways it illuminates the despicable behavior levied against him all the more brightly.

When you have been victimized the temptation is to hang onto it, seeking recompense and retribution. I certainly have those tendencies. I used to like to think of it as valuing justice; however, I’ve come to see it as a much smaller, shortsighted, and self-serving thing to do.

There’s also the temptation to relive it.  You ruminate. Perhaps current events remind you of ancient wrongs. But the thing is, unless something new and victimizing is actually happening, we were victimized just once in this specific way. The replaying is an unhelpful and self-punishing choice that we make – we are not being victimized again and again and again and again and again.

There’ve been times in my life when my “victimization” defined me. It was bigger in my days than I was. Not only that, but I used it.  It entitled me to engage in all sorts of bad behavior – punishing people, not respecting boundaries, and generally running rampant over the landscape of my life.

Why? Because I had been treated badly by someone, sometime.

It’s hard to let go of that kind of privilege. And yet at the same time it is such a dreary and rutted place to live, hanging onto that victimization day in and day out.

As a survivor, I am not defined by whatever someone did or didn’t do to me some decades ago. I choose my own self-definition, proactively and powerfully. It’s a way more exciting and fulfilling way to live then hanging on to the victim’s privilege of punishing and complaining and justifying and rationalizing – and spinning my tires around the same old injustices over and over and over again!

I grow tired of the victims in my life … and of the victim in me.  Not denying real victimization here … just sayin’.

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Tumblr

Following Boltgirl’s lead, I have created a Tumblr Blog … FWIW.

You can check it out here:  http://jordancornblog.tumblr.com/ So far I have changed the theme on this almost hourly … so don’t expect anything to stay put!

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Unrest

I went to bed early last night hoping to catch up on my sleep, only to be kept awake by my thoughts. Not really important to share the specifics, but I had run up against some information about a very, very old acquaintance that was disturbing.  Again, the details aren’t important, but it vaguely tapped into feelings and memories from my early childhood. You know, those dim, shadowy recollections that we’re ambivalent about fully bringing into the light, and yet that probably set our course in life so long as we don’t.

So anyway, I was a little restless and sleep did not come easily.  In my case, my mother’s face looming in my thoughts at bedtime offers no calm and no comfort …

Then, waking up this morning, I check MSNBC only to discover that the unrest in Egypt continues to unfold/unravel, and Americans are being told that they should consider getting the hell out of Dodge.

Meanwhile, RPE is in Israel completing the first leg of her journey there. I study the maps, feeling better when I know that she’s gonna be heading toward the eastern side of the country, and worse when her course will take her toward the West and the Egyptian border.

It is so strange to be a world away and to be reading the news – not wanting to alarm her or anyone unnecessarily – and also just worrying …

Comments would be more than welcome this morning, as I know how I can get myself going!  Talk me down, folks … talk me down!  😉  (Yeah, I’m kidding … mostly.)

PS – Went to see Social Network yesterday at Red River … check it out if you haven’t seen it.  Harvard appears to be a stranger and more unpleasant place than I had ever realized!

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A Tale of Two Worlds

As President Obama urged members of Congress to invest more money in our education system, New Hampshire’s newly elected House of Reps is doing the exact opposite.  Yesterday, HB 39 found its way to the House Education committee.  This bill proposes elimination of arts education, world languages, health education, technology education and information and communication technologies from the list of subjects included in the definition of an adequate education. 

Elimination of ….what?!?!?  When was the last time that these morons talked to a student who struggles with math and only attends school because he looks forward to his 5th period art class?  How about the “A” student who can’t get in to Boston College because she was never offered a world language course in high school?  This is a joke, right??  Wrong!

As our state goes to hell in a handbasket, these freshman lawmakers are trying to prove their worth by making a mockery of our education system.  This article outlines the frightening plans of how they are looking to make the “necessary” spending cuts to improve our economy.

Hold on, New Hampshire, this could get ugly!!!

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So, yesterday morning …

… RPE woke up and said, “I have to go to Israel.”

And so, she did.

“The miracles of our dreams lie beneath our foot soles — in each and every tiny step we take as we journey to the stars… I reckon the destination isn’t the only miracle.”

Besa Kosova

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One for the Heartland

So it’s the Packers and the Steelers … the match-up I was hoping for (if it couldn’t be Pats-Eagles).

Meanwhile RPE packs … and we steel ourselves for today’s good-bye (get it?).

Bad humor on a frigid NH Monday … and we carry on … because we do!

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