Selfishness That Passeth All Understanding

These are hard times … mostly.  Everyone is suffering … mostly.  Everyone is having to tighten their belts and make sacrifices … mostly.

According to a report put out by Goldman-Sachs to private health insurers, their suffering will increase if meaningful health reform is passed.  The best course for them, from Goldman’s perspective?  No action.

Thanks very much.  What’s with you, GOP?  You decry labor unions for trying to hold the line of wages.  “Selfish, selfish,” you say.  Meanwhile, the likes of these dudes continue to loot and pillage virtually unimpeded.  Where are you, GOP?  In their pockets, perhaps?  Or maybe in a darker place entirely … no sun shining there.

Anyway, for more insight into the kinds of things that Goldman and the GOP would like to see happen, check out this post at The Smirking Chimp.  It’s a list of 15-things the GOP would do if they could.  And you thought 2012 sounded scary!!???

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Very Quickly This Morning

I read that, per Barbara Boxer, the Senate is going to do what’s right on the Choice front and not use healthcare reform to shove a regressive, far-right agenda down the throats of America.  Hope she’s correct!

I read that Lindsay Lohan is mad at her dad … and am struck by how horrible it would have been, had my feelings and familial struggles been splashed all over the media at that age.  (Of course, that doesn’t address the matter of her parents’ rantings and escapades.  It’s all pretty over the top, any way you look at it.  Why’d it capture my attention?  Because I’m going for the low-hanging fruit this morning.  Sorry!

So, speaking of low hanging fruit, there’s always Sarah P for a laugh.  This time, it’s Obama’s alleged attack on god.  Oh my god!  (As it turns out, it ain’t Obama – it was Bush and the GOP Congress who made the change to our change that the ex-Guv is so righteously worked up about.)

!Giant Forest HogAnd speaking of god … its appetite apparently whetted by its successful lobbying efforts against women and choice, the Catholic Church has now turned its eyes toward the gay rights movement.  They are threatening to cut off services to the poor in DC if the city doesn’t nix a gay marriage law.  Christianity continues to rampage like a ravening, Giant Forest Hog … and we all know what kind of mindless damage those beasts can do!  Someone, stop it, please!

Ugh!!!

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Elizabeth Lambert Makes the Times

Violence in women’s sports has made the news, thanks to the recent YouTube exposé of unsportsmanlike play in a match between the University of New Mexico and BYU.  And while it’s generally nice to read ANY press about women’s sports, this is some unwelcome attention.

In response to events, some are taking the opportunity to make bad jokes.  Others are pausing to debate the direction of women’s sports.  I like that.  (And on the bad, bad, bad “jokes” front – someone should do a dissertation on the comments people write on YouTube videos – and what they reflect about our culture.  Pretty disturbing stuff.)

Anyway – as for the direction of women’s sports – I was a big celebrator of Title IX back in the day.  But having watched how things have evolved, I have to say it’s a mixed blessing.  The biggest loss it has propogated so far, in my estimation, is the dearth of opportunities to be a three-sport athlete in school.  It’s well-nigh impossible at most colleges – and is becoming unusual in many high schools, too.  This is a big loss.

I see it as indicative of a trend in our culture to focus on outcomes.  “Measurable outcomes” is the catch-phrase these days.  Everybody is striving to put up numbers – be it in healthcare, education … sports.  There are winners and losers.  Success is what everybody wants, and it’s clear to everyone what it means.  You’re hard pressed not to teach to the test … and certainly, you’re gonna coach to win … and play to win.  There’s too much at stake.

Lost are “nuances” like what you can learn from sports … win or lose.  Character-building?  That’s for losers.  Your coach’s job and your scholarship depend on how you perform.  There’s money on the table and you are being measured.

This doesn’t excuse anything that happened on the pitch the other day … but man, are we ever on the wrong track!

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The good … and the bad and ugly …

Thumbs up to Claire McCaskill for having the courage to speak out about the Stupid(ak) Amendment and oppose adding it to the Senate Healthcare bill.  Coming from a relatively conservative state, her backbone is that much more appreciated.  Jean Shaheen, are you listening?

On the bad and ugly front, we have Fred Phelps and his evil minions bringing their bile to the streets outside of Sidwell Friends.

Nice to read that at least one Phelps, Nate, escaped the thrall of the family business.  His blog makes for some interesting reading …

Check out the video here … bizarre and chilling.

Brainwashed people, smiling and singing vile verbiage.

Young, fresh-faced Nazi-type folks.

It sure tests the limits of free spech and tolerance.

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This Time Last Week …

… the Phillies were about to send the World Series back to NY for Game 6 … and the Eagles hadn’t lost to the Cowboys … and the House hadn’t capitulated to the dastardly religious right and made “choice” an even less meaningful word than it already is … and many of us had never heard of Fort Hood … and oh, my, life was looking good.  Nostalgia!

November SunsetHere’s yesterday’s November sunset at the lake, courtesy of HollyCornblog.  How different the light looks!

Today is Anne Sexton’s birthday.  What a revelation she was to me … a little like Joan Crawford … who in turn was a little like a mother I knew once.

Ah, here’s to those mothers who could dazzle with their smiles, and whose egocentricity and entitlement (often spiced with expletives and violence) pretty much laid waste to the world around them.

Thankfully, some of those mothers, like Anne and Joan, had daughters who wrote books that shone bright lights on them … helping others to see more clearly, perhaps … and realize that what they experienced as “normal” just maybe wasn’t!

So, in honor of Anne Sexton’s birthday … and in honor of survival … and complexity … and of exploring as much as you can while you can … and maybe even sharing it so others can gain some perspective … here’s a snippet from “Flee on Your Donkey.”

It’s a passage that haunts me for reasons I don’t really get.  Sometime, I’ll understand … but for now, I’ll just share it …  ;>)

Anne, Anne,

flee on your donkey,

flee this sad hotel,

ride out on some hairy beast,

gallop backward pressing

your buttocks to his withers,

sit to his clumsy gait somehow.

Ride out

any old way you please!

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Just When You Think Something MIGHT Get Better

So the House passed its healthcare reform bill, while selling out women … with 64 Democrats, for reasons that pass understanding, vote with the GOP to effectively strip meaningful access to abortion from the bill.  Disgusting.  I am sick at heart about this last bit of inexcusable and incomprehensible pandering to the right.  What the hell are the Dems so afraid of?  Boltgirl has written eloquently on the subject … check it out.

Meanwhile, here’s a sample of the level of debate that the process involved … as a series of Republican lawmakers “object” meaninglessly and make it impossible for a series of Democratic Congresswomen to speak.

httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eMdlcnK_MI4

The behavior is childish and obstructionist … and reflective of the desperation of a bankrupt party whose members see the writing on the wall (I think).  That makes it all the more frustrating that those 64 Democrats would walk over to the dark side.

Okay, so enough about healthcare.  I feel like the groundhog … poke my head up into the “real world” of politics and such, see my shadow, and retreat back to more manageable (and arguably more interesting) fare … like the A-Rod as Centaur story.

Just when I had started to think maybe he wasn’t as empty and ego-maniacal as I’ve generally surmised … I learn that he’s got not one but TWO portraits of himself as a centaur  in his bedroom.  The story comes complements of an ex.  Even factoring in the likelihood that she has an ax to grind … it seems unlikely that it’s complete fabrication.  Hell, even one Centaur-portrait is weird, don’t you agree?  Kate Hudson … what the hell are you thinking?

Moving on, I am late in stating my sadness and frustration at the repeal of Maine’s Gay Marriage bill, having really thought the great State of Maine would turn the tide on that one … and the polls apparently did, too.

On the whole question, however, I think that we are taking the wrong tack entirely.  There should be a push, in EVERY state, to make Civil Unions the government-sanctioned method for hooking up for life.  Period.

The government has no business sanctioning or not sanctioning marriages.  Let marriage be entirely the purview of religious organizations.  Then the f–cking fundamentalist hoardes can deny marriages to whomever they hell they want to.  That way the sanctity of the holy rite can be protected from all manner of despicable folks … and meanwhile, the government can offer equal rights and the pursuit of happiness as the Constitution demands, without upsetting the holy-rollers.

Why do we keep walking into this meaningless squabble with religious bigots?  It’s a power struggle over a prize that we should just let them keep.

Marriage schmarriage.  In fact, I really do think that government having anything at all to do with the word is an artifact of this country’s Judeo-Christian heritage and should be put down.  Seriously.  Civil unions for everyone – take the damn word out of our laws entirely.

It makes me crazy!

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WTF?

Thanks, AMR, for sharing thie video below of the University of New Mexico’s Elizabeth Lambert demonstrating how NOT to play the game of soccer.

httpvh://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNmPybFK2_o

I am glad to see that New Mexico suspended this player, but even so, ya gotta think this kind of match play didn’t suddenly arise out of the blue.  How does a player come to think that this is even remotely okay?  She says … “This is in no way indicative of my character or the soccer player I am.”

I am sorry – and this is said with your best interests at heart, Liz – but you can’t behave like that and then walk away and say that it’s not indicative of your character.

It happened.

You did it.

It sure as hell indicates SOMETHING … and right now, I’d say it indicates something about your character.

What you do next also indicates something about your character.

It’d be really good for your character if you did some soul searching right about now.

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Phinally Phriday

… and one last tip of the hat to the Philllies on a great season.  Here’s a nice post from Phillies Nation … “Proud to be a Phan.”  Now I’ll put it away …

The news out of Fort Hood Texas is so bad, so sad, so disheartening and incomprehensible, that I don’t know what to say about it … except that I wish to god that we had the political will to institute meaningful gun control.  And please, no bad jokes about psychiatrists and/or mental health.  With the levels of rage, disenfranchisement, and hopelessness in this country, people need to be encouraged to seek out help … to defuse and deflect potential violent scenes like this one.  Oh, and no backlash against our fellow Muslim/Arab citizens, okay?  Could we have a more nuanced response than our right wing brethren usually treat us to?  Could we muzzle the likes of Glenn, Rush, Sean and Bill?  Ah, how refreshing the silence would be!

I’m adding a couple of important links today … and for those of you who’d like to see JordanCornblog function as your homepage, I’m open to other suggestions …;>)

What am I adding?

Foothills Physical Therapy … hands down the best collection of physical therapy professionals in Central New Hampshire … nah, in all of New England!  How’s them apples?  Check them out – not only are they excellent, they are FUN!

The New Hampshire Community Loan Fund … award-winning and innovative community economic development powerhouse that has had a direct, positive impact on countless NH citizens.  And now, with ROC USA, they have taken their innovative model and their expertise national!

And then there’s the Concord Feminist Health Center … staunch … steadfast … key member of the healthcare community since the ’70’s … and holding to that word “feminist” through thick and thin.  Did I say staunch?  You betcha!!

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Well, MY Daddy Wouldn't Be Happy

JordanCornblog’s predictions proved slightly inaccurate, perhaps because the biking didn’t start soon enough in the series.  Or perhaps because she didn’t wear her Utley shirt for those last two games … or the Phillies hat … or maybe the barometric pressure was all wrong (that was the problem the year the Eagles lost to the Pats in the Superbowl … I’m pretty sure).

It’s a big burden, keeping those guys on a winning path.  Clearly, JordanCornblog wasn’t up to it.  Not this year, anyway.  Next year.  Next year!

Had it not been for Matsui, the score would have been 3-1 … a Phillies win.  JordanCornblog comforts herself with that thought.

In addition, there’s that whole payroll thing.  And that $1.5 BILLION ballpark.  JordanCornblog finds that kinda comforting as well – that it took millions to put away an upstart team with a fraction of the bucks taking the field!  Of COURSE the Yankees won.  Good grief.

On the positive side, between Boltgirl’s excellent modeling and these last two World Series games, JordanCornblog has gotten some exercise under her belt.  That’s never a bad thing.  Next year she’ll be in better shape … and ready to bike for the Phillies OR the Cubbies!

And DaddyCornblog?  He’d have loved to have seen a Phillies repeat … but he has a much broader perspective on these things than we mere mortals do.  Any words of wisdom, Dad?

One plus that he’d be sure to remind us of … more sleep.  Now we can all get more sleep!

;>)

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Wanna Go Biiiiiiiking?

That’s where I’ll be as I watch Game 6 tonight.

Bold prediction time …

The short rest is gonna catch up with Andy Pettitte, as the Phillies bats will chase him out by the 3rd inning … and it’ll be an even more precipitous downhill slide for the Yankees from that point on.

Meanwhile a rested and highly motivated Pedro will pitch himself a shut-out … one for the ages.  It’ll almost be a no-hitter, but Derek Jeter will ruin that scenario in the 8th with a single.

After that, no more hits and it’s on to Game 7.

Wow – did that ever feel great to write.  (I’ll have to pedal hard to make it all true!)

Other news this sunny November morning?

Sadly, the Belmont girls’ soccer team lost a heartbreaker to Campbell in the second overtime yesterday.  The final score was 1-0.  Well done, BHS.  Congrats, graduating seniors.  The rest of you?  Your high school soccer future is looking very bright!

PS  One more bold prediction – a two-parter:

  • Ryan Howard shaves his beard and gets his mojo back!
  • Ryan Howard doesn’t shave his beard and gets his mojo back!
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