USWNT in Do or Die Match in Chicago Today

The US women’s national soccer team faces off against Italy today in Chicago It’s their second match with Italy … and total goals will determine who goes to Germany to play in the women’s World Cup.

A win or a draw will send the US to Germany. A one-point win by Italy would send both teams into a tiebreaker scenario, while a win by more than one point would send Italy to the women’s World Cup.

The game is on ESPN3.com at 1 PM Central time – and you can bet I’m going to be messing with the computer and the TV to see if we can get it set up to watch on the wider screen this afternoon.

Will Pia let Alex Morgan have some more playing time … or will it be the same old, same old.  Folks over at BigSoccer are surely fed up with Pia.

Meanwhile, I see that satire, apparently, is beyond the ken of the readers and editors of FoxNation.com. FoxNation reprinted an article from The Onion indicating that a distraught and despondent Obama had sent a rambling e-mail to everyone in the country. Whether the editors actually thought it was real will probably never be known to us – but reading the readers comments was pretty amazing. How gullible and without any sense of irony these folks are – and how hateful!

It’s scary combination – the deep wells of acrimony coupled with the singular lack of reflection and personal depth. Then again, I guess that’s really the most fertile ground for brewing hatefulness if you think about it.

Enough of that already.

HollyCornblog and CharlieHopbrew are heading up to the lake today – I’m wishing them good weather, and a nice, quiet, cozy time up there.

And me? I’m gonna plan my day shortly, as I began a new year (for me) filled with appreciation for friends and family, for good health and work and the gifts of this earth … and, of course, for the Eagles and the Phillies!

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Gratitude and Condolences …

… to Boltgirl, who lost her grandmother to a stroke on Sunday … and brings to my mind the fleeting preciousness of every single moment of our lives.  The slap of a screen door and sound of barefeet running across a summertime porch to some manner of outdoor adventure.  It’s all in there – the smells, the sounds, the textures of it. We hold it all … the poignant losses that memory can touch but not quite grasp.

I reflect, with gratitude, on the people who have graced my days.  The meals cooked, the diapers changed, the appointments made and kept, snowsuits snapped on … all the daily tasks and the hands that tended to them.  Nothing spectacular, nothing glittery or newsworthy or award-winning … but the stuff that holds life together … day-to-day-to-day.

I celebrate my father, steady as they come, who did what he needed to do and enjoyed the simple things, as he would attest.  He also endured Mom … and rooting for Philadelphia teams for his entire life.  I think that the two things are probably related.

And I celebrate my mother who was who she was.  With all the craziness … and I do mean craziness … she still somehow kept track of three kids and all the stuff that is involved in that.  What wrong-headed-but-prodigious energy it must have taken, to do all of that and still manage to have time left-over for endless hours of railing against the pope and other demonized entities!  (And no wonder she died at 49 … so much had been expended so hard for so long).

This Thanksgiving I am grateful.  Yes.

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And the big middle finger goes to …

So, I read happily that as a voting populace we came to our senses just in the nick of time and voted Jennifer Grey the winner on Dancing With the Stars.  Not that I actually watch the show (and no, I’m not lying about that).  But I have noticed the weekly headlines. We certainly have been mesmerized by the drama on the dance floor, haven’t we?

The daughter of “she who shall remain nameless” finished a surprising third in a contest that she should have been eliminated from months ago based on her dancing skills. The rabid supporters of her mother, however, kept this dancer in the mix right up to the grand finale – and Fox, of course, benefitted in the ratings race as a result.

But that whole deal of the voters backing someone who’s clearly unqualified. Hmmmmm, sounds so familiar. Where have I seen that before?  Gosh, I know it’s right on the tip of my tongue.

And then, don’t you just love the classiness of the dancer? Aren’t you inspired by her reason for seeking this trophy?  Is it to celebrate the beauty and athleticism of dance?  Or maybe to bring a worthy charity to our attention?  Or even just to further her own career in some corner of the entertainment world?

Nah … she wanted to win so that she could flip the bird to folks like you and me.  What an inspiring goal!

So, let’s review. You enter a contest that you’re not qualified for, and your backers keep you going, while more deserving people are eliminated. And the whole purpose of this is just to give some group of nasty people the finger?

Thanks, tiny dancer, for the reminder of why I so thoroughly dislike you and your opportunistic clan.

Perhaps I shouldn’t blame you, as you’re young and were apparently raised by a vicious, hairy animal.

But then again, being a mom yourself now, you’re getting to be old enough to know better.

Anyway, ’til you learn … here’s a song for you and your great big middle finger!

http://www.youtube.com/v/VTlLUDJscSU?fs=1&hl=en_US&color1=0x234900&color2=0x4e9e00

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Home Again

So it’s November 23, 2010 and I’m home again after a really nice visit with HollyCornblog and CharlieHopbrew (and an extra special visit from my Kindle buddy … a.k.a. wannabes), as well as a brief span of quiet time up at the Lake. Since getting home I’ve been thinking a lot about that tennis ball at the bottom of the boat slide.

Ahhhhh ...When I first saw the tennis ball bobbing around in the icy water, I immediately thought of Willie, and immediately missed his presence.

However, what I missed entirely was what I feel now (having been helped to this realization by the comments of others).

That tennis ball wasn’t just a reminder of Willie’s presence – it was a visit from Willie.

How ever energy works in this universe, I don’t think it disappears with death – but it is transformed – maybe even freed. So what I really can feel now is that Willie’s energy somehow managed to help that tennis ball find its way to the bottom of the boat slide – and to bring me to a place where I intersected with it.

And what I feel sad about is that I wasn’t in a space, right then, to recognize and greet that presence. Instead, I was simply missing Willie.  The two things feel so different to me.

So I send my greetings now – and I have a feeling that that Willie energy, wherever it is, will be able to know that and accept it. Thanks for your visit Willie!  Thanks for offering your greeting … I hear it/see it now!

As a sort of counterpoint to that warmth and positivity, I am also reminded, today, of the darkness and chaos of my beginnings. Certain anniversaries bring that to mind unbidden, and I can almost feel ambushed by it.  Resentful.  That’s how I felt today as I sat quietly, expecting … I dunno … peaceful and edifying thoughts … something along those lines.

It’s difficult to welcome that energy when it comes to me. That said, though, I know that dipping into the difficult things always brings me to a deeper and richer place in my life. Those things are there, whether I dip into them or not. And the more I look at the dark and unpredictable and even dangerous characters like Malcolm and Grindad and Mom who imposed their toxicity on my days and nights – the more I can free myself from that sludge and venom … and stop repeating the things in my own life that I found most troublesome in theirs.

So this day, I celebrate sweet Willie and I celebrate the fact that I survived and that I can continue to learn and grow. I celebrate with gratitude and with open eyes.

Onward!

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Dick Cheney is Still Alive

Tick, tick, tick …

I’m heading home from NY shortly.

Hoping this post doesn’t bring bad karma!  (If it does, it’s brief enough that, hopefully, the bad karma will be brief, too.)

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Quick Sunday Update

Lovely poem from Grace Paley this morning on The Writer’s Almanac daily e-mail.  Titled “In the Bus” … a visit from a long ago child bringing an invitation … out of the blue, on a bus in Western Mass …

a sigh    she whispered    Hey you
begin again
Again?
again     again    you’ll see
it’s easy    begin again    long ago

… lovely and true.  Begin again – in any moment.  It’s a message embedded in every world religion worth its salt … in our DNA, too, if we can sift through all the “stuff” of our daily lives and get to it.  Seriously.  Out of the quiet … when we give it to ourselves … always will come these visits and invitations.

As for the “stuff” that gets in the way … I can’t resist adding to it by noting that the USWNT defeated Italy in the first of their two games.  A goal by Alex Morgan in the waning moments of stoppage time put them over the top.  Somehow Lori Lindsay managed a yellow card while on the bench.  That seems unnecessary, Lori … ;>) … but not entirely surprising.

Finally .. get ready for the Eagles – Giants tonight.  I am hoping that HollyCornblog didn’t jinx the Eagles by picking up Kevin Kolb (just in case).  Seems a fate-tempting sort of thing to do … just sayin’.

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So, Woodstove Management …

Yep, that’s definitely a skill I need to practice a bit more, judging from the 80+ degrees I managed to have the place at by bedtime.  (And yes, JBD … if we manage a trek up here in the cold weather sometime, YOU can be in charge of the stove … not to worry.)  I had to keep opening the kitchen door to cool things down.

The heat was so debilitating that I watched @ 45 minutes of a documentary about the life of Bill Parcells … before I came to my senses!  It’s one thing to feel a flash of compassion for Jay Cutler … but a big tuna who coached both the Giants AND the ‘boys??!!!  JordanCornblog clearly wasn’t well.

I next caught @ half an hour of Maddow’s replay of her interview with Jon Stewart.  Interesting discussion, but I came away thinking … “But what if Dubya and Dick really were/are evil?!”  Shouldn’t we stop attempting to have civil dialogue and sound the alarm?  Either I am too enmeshed in the liberal POV to have any perspective … or I wasn’t entirely getting his point.

Don’t forget that the USWNT plays Italy today in the first of two must-win games.  Apparently you can watch live on ESPN3.com (won’t work for me on dial-up) … or you can follow along on MatchTracker or Twitter.

Finally, kudos to the Canadian women for returning to the top 10 in world soccer rankings.  The US Women dropped 42 points … but remain atop the heap.  Hopefully after their games with Italy they will remain there …

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First Morning at the Lake

So, I’m up at the lake this morning, having driven over yesterday. It’s very strange being here without Willie, and I find myself thinking of him often. Oddly enough, when I went out to the lake yesterday, first thing, I noticed that a tennis ball had washed in from the other side and was bobbing in the icy water at the bottom of the boat slide. Had he been here he’d have seen it, pounced, and come up dripping and grinning, with that ball securely (but oh so softly held) in his sweet Lab mouth.

The work that HollyCornblog and CharlieHopbrew have done up here is truly amazing. When I arrived it was probably about 38° both inside and outside the house. I got the fire going, and it took quite a while to get things warmed up, but by dark it was probably about 68° inside, while the temp was dropping outside.

By the time I went to bed it was probably about 74° inside and I had to really bank the stove down. It got as low as 28° outside last night, but when I woke up it was 65° here inside – a tad warmer than it is downstairs at home in the morning!  (Hear that, Beeg!!!???)

The surprise, when I woke up, was a dusting of snow on the ground. In the past, that would’ve really scared me, as the house used to be so difficult to warm up, and keep warm. But seeing the snow this morning was merely interesting. I gaze outside and see that the wind is blowing pretty steadily and the sky is a steely November gray, but I don’t feel the least bit nervous about being comfortable in here as I read and write and think and ponder and reminisce.

So thanks, HollyCornblog and CharlieHopbrew! It’s amazing what you’ve accomplished. You’re right, I can’t really even hear the wind, though in daylight I can definitely SEE it. Oh, and I still hear the ghosts walking around upstairs – but not hearing the night sounds in the woods quite the way I used to … that’s a very good thing!

Another change up here this year is ongoing phone service/internet through the winter.  And the TV is still here and hooked up. It’s not really too much of a temptation (that TV – I’m not one to randomly watch – much more likely to randomly lose time on the internet). But I must say it was nice to settle in last night and watch the Chicago Miami game from the comfort of this cozy place.

Yeah, and my heart softened just a wee bit toward Jay Cutler, after learning that he’s managing diabetes while playing professional football. I still don’t like his attitude, but maybe I can have a little more compassion for it.  Poor Tyler Thigpen … rough outing for him!

Well, I believe it’s time to think about bringing in some wood and getting outside for a bit before settling in for some reading/writing. Happy Friday!

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Some Soccer Stuff

The news out of the WPS is a mixed bag these days – a very mixed bag. It sounds like the Washington Freedom have secured funding for 2011, and the season will go on. However, FC Gold Pride are now defunct, and the Chicago Red Stars sound like they are in some trouble. Meanwhile, there’s a new team in Buffalo. Go figure.

Pia has named the  24-woman preliminary roster for the USWNT must win game against Italy on Saturday (10:30 AM on ESPN3.com).

The UConn women extended their winning streak last night and what sounded like an exciting, and razor thin, victory over Baylor.

Kudos to Roy Halladay for winning this year’s National League Cy Young Award … and to the Goffstown Grannies for finally taking down the inimitable Tim Tebow Barbershop Brigade in fantasy football! Ironic, and cosmically perfect, that Tim’s namesake team should lose on the week that he threw his first NFL TD pass.

It’s raining to beat the band here this morning, and all of my umbrellas are in the backseat of my car. Nicely done JordanCornblog!

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Waiting for … What? (Another Cranky Rant or … I Need a Vacation!)

I went to see Waiting for Superman the other night, and the more I think about it, the more annoyed I feel by this movie. Basically, it’s an indictment of the public education system (no news there) that places the blame squarely on “poor teachers” … and on the teachers’ unions that make it difficult to fire these poor teachers and to reward the good ones.

I don’t disagree with some of the points that they make in the movie. I am sure that the unions make it difficult to fire people, as does the tenure system (which predates the unions). However, IMHO this movie offered a gross oversimplification of the elements involved in the problem.

What about administrators? How about school boards?

Consider that phys ed teacher who’s been at your local middle school for 23 years and is well-liked by the school board. He becomes the principal and is put in a position of providing educational leadership to a staff of, say, 80 teachers.  So basically, this friendly, popular, possibly a-little-bit-burnt-out guy becomes the CEO of a small business with a budget of several million dollars.

And maybe it turns out that he’s not such a nice guy after all. Maybe he’s a bit of a bully. What does that do to the morale of your excellent teachers? How is that a situation that is going to inspire excellence – either from the staff or the students?  Believe me, years ago when I worked in a school district in Pennsylvania, I saw this happen a lot. Yes, there were poor, underperforming teachers – but that was not the only issue … and it still isn’t the only issue in this system.

IMHO (again) the schools reflect what’s going on in our culture. What does it say about us that the value of education has been boiled down to a matter of competing with the rest of the world? Does education have no intrinsic value here in this great experiment that we call America?

What does it say about the value we place on education that some of the leading lights of our major political movements are so proud of the fact that they don’t know shit? If we’re celebrating that kind of incompetence, and even considering putting people of that ilk in charge of our country, what are we telling our kids about school and learning and education?  If our biggest heroes are celebrities and athletes, how can we really expect teachers to imbue our sons and daughters with a love of learning?

What we value, what we truly value, is truly reflected in the performance of our schools. I think pointing our fingers at “poor teachers” is really crap.

We need to look at ourselves as a culture – THAT’S what needs to change.

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